Lost Restaurant Series: Sea in the Rough

An early photograph of the seasonal, take-out only restaurant from 1968. Photo credit: Cape Cod Chronicle.

Author’s Note: Looking back at over fifty posts in two years, a noticeable pattern emerged. I like to eat – and Cape Cod is a great place to dine. Restaurant reviews, pictures of plates and a recipe or two, dominates HappyCapeCod.com, and a full stomach may help explain my “Happy Cape Cod” experience. While most food-related content features popular or new restaurants pumping out business, a couple articles, dubbed ‘Throwback Thursdays,” were fun stories and short histories of a few favorite restaurants no longer in operation. 

I’ve decided to embrace the “throwback” theme, re-launching that series. Now dubbed the “Lost Restaurant Series,” tell tales of favorite lost restaurants of Lower Cape Cod. These establishments, many with a strong local followings in their heyday, were the home to vivid childhood memories; birthday celebrations, secret ice cream stops and special events.

Most of the restaurants that come to mind ended their runs while I was a young, so my recollection of their existence is limited to memories of myself, family and friends, old newspaper articles, and grainy photographs. Initial conversations with my parents have morphed into heated debates about menus, uneven tables, original nautical decor (versus cheap knockoffs found in box stores) and delightful radio jingles. I’ve reached out a former owners or their family members, but have yet to connect.

While most lost restaurants in mind are not historical or ever sniffed a “five star rating,” they lasted longer than most (at least a five year run) and made an impression on my family.

Enjoy a trip down memory lane – the lost restaurant edition.

Sea in the Rough, 1077 Main Street, Chatham (Also formerly known as Marley’s Restaurant, Longshore, and now Knot’s Landing)

An artists rendering of Sea in the Rough Restaurant. Photo credit: HipPostcard.

The story of Sea in the Rough Restaurant started in 1966, with the Eldridge Family. Mr. Oren Leon Eldridge and his wife, Mrs. Nancy Jane Eldridge, along with their four daughters, opened the small, seasonal take-out only restaurant at the 1077 Main Street Chatham location on weekends during the summer.

The early menu of the restaurant consisted of true summer favorites; hotdogs, hamburgers, seafood plates, fried clams and other short order foods.  A patio with picnic tables allowed diners to not just enjoy their food fresh and outside, but also to “come as you are” (i.e., sandy and wet), likely from the beach, boat or golf course. The seasonal restaurant took phone orders, even boasting the use of special wrapping to ensure the food remained hot. But the Eldridge family did not stay in the restaurant business for long.

In 1972, the Eldridge family sold the business to Helen and Frank H. Tobin, who would go on to become long-time owners. The new owners attracted more business by expanding the small, take-out only business into a full service restaurant, with indoor dining, an outdoor patio, take-out and larger menu (“from King Neptune’s Garden”). 

Advertisement in the Cape Cod Chronicle from 1973. Photo Credit: Cape Cod Chronicle.

Expansion led to people from all over the Cape pronouncing Sea in the Rough as “one of the finest eating places to be found anywhere in the area.” The dining room was decorated with captains tables and chairs with an open, airy, comfortable vibe. The outside patio also had ample seating under yellow umbrellas. The term “Meet me at Sea in the Rough” became commonplace. 

Frank was active in the community. He was a member of the Chatham Rotary Club, and hosted the Annual Scallop Fest at Sea in the Rough from 1976-1985. He was also an avid runner, having sponsored and organized the Chatham Harbor Run for decades. For years, race t-shirts for participants were distributed at the restaurant. It probably comes as no surprise to learn Frank closed the restaurant early the night of the Annual Town Meeting so he (and other residents) could attend (participate in local affairs).

In the summer of 1986, Sea in the Rough launched a Sunday Brunch consisting of coffee, danish, fresh fruit bar, juice and one of the following entrees eggs benedict, lobster quiche, prime rib and eggs, seafood crepes, chicken a la king and omelet du jour. 

Marley’s Restaurant as it appeared in a real estate listing. Photo credit: Realtor.com

By the late 1980s, it was time for a change and the Tobin’s needed a successor. It did not take long to find one. Tammy DePasquale worked in the restaurant and her husband David, was a regular at the counter. The DePasquale’s assumed the role of new owners. The menu continued to feature freshly caught fish from Chatham fishermen, of the fried, broiled, and baked variety. There was even a 10-ounce strip steak for the carnivores, a children’s menu and head-turning desserts, such as Boston creme pie, key lime pie, and banana splits. 

By the mid-1990s, many of the 37 employees not only lived nearby, but started working there at age 14 in the take-out area, later “graduating” to servers in the dining room.

In 1998, Audrey and William Gray, who ran the Bradford Inn & Champlain Restaurant for 23 years, purchased the Sea in the Rough Restaurant and re-opened it as Marley’s Restaurant. The restaurant, named after their family cat literally kept the family friendly atmosphere previously built…their children Rob and daughter Lara were chefs. Marley’s had a 15-year run until it was purchased by Robert and Roz DeLong of Eastham in 2012. 

The 1077 Main Street restaurant in August, 2018. Photo credit: Jeff Shaw.

The DeLongs opened Longshore in 2012, which enjoyed a 7-year run. Due the declining health of Robert DeLong, the business was sold to Philip and Sophia Malita of New England Pizza fame. 

In 2019, Phil and Sophia opened Knot’s Landing Bar & Grill. With an expiring lease on the pizza restaurant down the road, they decided to merge the pizza business into Knot’s Landing Bar & Grill. The result, an Italian, Greek seafood restaurant, which remains open to the present day (2020).

2020 Cape Cod Summer Reading List

Over thirty recommendations for your next paddling tour around Cape Cod. Photo credit: Jeff Shaw

Author’s Note: There are few pleasures in life as simple as reading on the beach. Limited “inbox” distractions, passing sailboats, salty air breezes, sand between your toes and ample sunshine, comforts the senses. Whether under the shade of an umbrella or while drying in the warm sun after a dip, flipping through a book, magazine, even newspaper, is a recipe for relaxation.

With the calendar turning from July to August, many of us will seek that “sand and shore therapy” over the next few weeks. So pack a cooler, towel, and beach chair before picking that spot on the sand- 15 feet from anyone else of course – to enjoy your next summer read.

2020 Cape Cod Summer Reading List

Last summer, one of my posts featured books I recently read that are about, or took place on, Cape Cod. I’m once again sharing a similar genre of books; fact, fiction, historical fiction, etc, about this special peninsula. Two quick notes about the list; 1) these books are not newly published in 2020, and 2) I am not a literary critic in any way, shape or form. Just someone who enjoys reading about Cape Cod and eager to share that information with others who feel the same way. Without further ado, below is your 2020 Cape Cod Summer Reading List.

Get an inside look at the Chatham A’s and the entire Cape Cod Baseball League. Photo credit: Jeff Shaw.

Last Best League, Jim Collins, 2004

Spend an entire summer baseball season (2002-Doc Brown’s time machine need only go back 18 years) with the class of the Cape Cod Baseball League, the Chatham A’s. Now known as the Chatham Anglers due to Major League Baseball (MLB) enforcing trademark law forcing them, and other teams, to change their names, this book celebrates a century and a half of America’s past time on Cape Cod. For those who enjoy the journey of player development, this is the book for you. This non-fictional account of an entire summer collegiate baseball season of the Chatham A’s, focuses on three players, two of which were pegged to be stars, and another that grew into the role over the course of the 44-game season. Former players, coaches, locals and many volunteers, who provide the foundation that keeps the league producing major league ready players, are also interviewed. The amount of generosity, planning and flexibility that goes into providing “free” summer evening baseball is truly remarkable. The reader may feel as if they are part of the Chatham A’s family by the end of this story. 

Alternative chapters spanning 300 years, and involving pirates, buried treasure and shipwrecks makes this a memorable read. Photo credit: Jeff Shaw

The Old Cape House, Barbara Eppich Struna, 2014

If you like alternative chapters that span 300 years, then this is the book for you. The Old Cape House, a historical fiction, tells the tale of the infamous pirate Sam Bellamy, of which many Cape Cod streets and buildings are named; and Maria Hallett, another popular Cape Cod family name and legend in her own right. The present day storyline follows a family that recently moved from the midwest to the Cape, and unbeknown to them, now live on the same property where a critical moment in the historical saga took place. The story builds slowly, but quickly intensifies; shocks and surprises. The modern day story could happen to any of us, especially those who have a soft spot for buried treasure.

You may find yourself with renewed appreciation of the three great elemental sounds in nature; pounding rain, whipping wind, and breaking waves of the ocean. Photo credit: Jeff Shaw.

The Outermost House, Henry Beston, 1928

After a visit to Coast Guard Beach (then known as Eastham Beach) in 1924, 36-year old Henry Beston was so overcome with the magnificence of the natural surroundings, he bought 50 acres of duneland on the barrier beach. In short order, he drew up architectural plans and had a one and a half room cottage built on the sand, two miles south of the current red and white life saving station at Coast Guard Beach. Intending to spend just two weeks in that remote solitude, Beston could not pull himself away from the “beauty and mystery of earth and outer sea” and lived on the beach an entire calendar year (September 1926 to September 1927). He documented everything; waves of three, shipwrecks, a stranded (but saved just in the nick of time) deer in icy waters, ghost ships emerging from collapsing dunes, herring runs, a walk from the Atlantic Ocean across “the forearm” to Cape Cod Bay and lots of birding. Beston subtly points out that modern society’s problems are partly explained by our separation to, or lack of appreciation of, nature. A beautifully written account of raw nature in all four seasons few people ever see or experience.

Evidence of one of the many tours recommended in Paddling Cape Cod. The small clearing connects Upper Mill Pond and Walkers Pond in Brewster. For those wondering about Lower Mill Pond; let’s just say, the “Narrows” were way too narrow. Photo credit: Jeff Shaw

Paddling Cape Cod, Shirley and Fred Bull, 2000  

A list of places to “put-in” for the avid, passive or novice paddler. The authors – who offer paddling tours through their company Cape Cod Coastal Canoe and Kayak – share their favorite paddling spots. As the authors’ state, “Paddling is an ideal way to reconnect with nature, escape the crowds [more important than ever these days], and explore long-forgotten parts of the Cape.” While boaters need to be aware of changes to (the depths of) waterways, inlets, and harbors thanks to shifting sand, a paddlers awareness rests with the changing tides. While this book was written for paddlers of the canoe and kayak type, a few hold up for the well balanced Stand-Up Paddleboarder. 

Happy summer reading!